Compiled by San Diego Jewish World
Another Milestone
Southwestern Jewish Press, October 14, 1955, Page 5
The business of living has made some of us immune to the emotional impacts that hit our city from time to time. When we examined the completed building of the new Hebrew Home for the Aged, we could not help feeling a sense of personal pride and accomplishment. This building is really the first Jewish community structure erected not for any one particular group, but for all the Jewish people of San Diego County.
We are happy to be numbered among the “Faithful Fifty,” who in 1946 had the courage and vision to do something for our aging citizens. Sparked originally by members of the Jolly 16 and the organization of “Happy Oldtimers,” it grew into the present group of devoted and energetic leaders who surely deserve the praise which will come their way on Sunday, when the Dedication takes place.
The path has not always been a smooth one. There are always the critics who find it simpler to spread false rumors than to check on facts. “So much for so few,” a remark often heard, shows little understanding of the growth of our aging problem. In twenty years, or perhaps less, the present structure will have to be enlarged. Another comment, “Only for the rich,” indicates a total lack of knowledge of the Home’s avowed policy to cater to those without funds first. There are others who are against everything which they feel will divert interest from their own particular group or organization.
To the critics and those who sincerely would like to know more about the Home, we recommend that they do themselves a favor by attending the Dedication ceremonies. Walk through the buildings and meet the guests who will be settled in their quarters by that time. To gain greater understanding of what has been accomplished, talk to some of the old people, look at their shiny, happy faces, and feel their sense of security and peace of mind. See the new Hebrew Home for the Aged and you too will be proud of it.
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Cottage of Israel
Southwestern Jewish Press, October 14, 1955, Page 5
The following officers were unanimously reelected to conduct the affairs of the Cottage of Israel for 1955-56: Presient, Seymour Gates; Vice-President, Dr. Hy Parrell; Treasurer, Philip Abrams; Recording Secretary, Mrs. Alwin Feiler; Financial and Corresponding Secretary, Mrs. George Borushek; delegate to the House of Pacific Relations, Mrs. Brooker.
The following were designated as chairmen: Guide chairman, Fred Yaruss; Program, Mrs. Hy Parrell; Decorations, Seymour Gates; Hostess Chairman, Mrs. Rose Abrams, and Publicity, Mrs. George Borushek.
On October 16, the San Diego Chapter of the American Association for the United Nations will celebrate the tenth anniversary of the UN by having a birthday party sponsored by the House of Pacific Relations. Every Cottage will donate the proceeds of the birthday cake sold that afternoon to the Children’s Emergency Fund of the United Nations.
On November 5, the only fund raising event held by the House of Pacific Relations will take place at the Officers Club in Balboa Park. This is the annual “Fiesta” an evening devoted to entertainment and dancing plus wonderful refreshments. Tickets for the “Fiesta” can be obtained from any officer of the Cottage of Israel.
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S.D. Tops Nation In Dialing Errors
Southwestern Jewish Press, October 14, 1955, Page 5
Local residents still aren’t letter perfect when it comes to dialing, but the number of incorrectly dialed calls has dropped 40 percent n the past four months.
That was the date telephone employees started an intensive campaign to help telephone users in the San Diego metropolitan areas help themselves.
Total mistakes for all local communities then was around five percent of all calls, or around 60,000 errors a day. This figure was tops for the nation.
Russell Kliegel, district manager, said the number of calls the telephone company has received from people awakened in the middle of the night, only to say, “Sorry, but you have the wrong number!” has dropped accordingly.
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Boy! Is He Healthy!
Southwestern Jewish Press, October 14, 1955, Page 5
Two Mammas were talking over the back fence and one as boasting about her son.
“He’s mine pride and joy,” she went on. “Such a boy. Anything I want. I don’t even have to ask, and he brings it home.”
Enviously, the friend asked, “He sends you to Murrietta.”
Mamma shrugged her shoulders. “Only to Murrietta—he sends me first class to Miami Beach. Like it was around the corner.”
The friend tried again, “A fur you got.”
Mamma chuckled, “Not only a fur but a mink stole.”
“He is already 40 years old and still listens to me. He wouldn’t take out a girl without asking me first. If I say ‘no’ he drops her like a hot potato.”
The friend cut in. “He’s a healthy boy?”
“Of course,” answered Mamma. “Sometimes he goes to a very big psychiatrist,” she added. “Costs $25 an hour. Money is n object. And what do you think he talks about for his $25 an hour?”
“What” asked the friend.
“What else,” she replied modestly. “His mamma!”
–Submitted by Don Pogrell.
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With the Guardians
Southwestern Jewish Press, October 14, 1955, Page 5
With the return of Aurora Lipton to Vallin’s, Guardian Lou Lipton has had his confidence as a maitre de completely restored to him. With Mrs. L in charge, there iss none of the former confusion –for now paper napkins are used but once—meat sandwiches have again taken on the appearance of something other than a mustard spread—a substantial relish bowl (Free! Greets each hungry patron—nice to have you back, Aurora.
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The three couples were feverishly engaged in an exciting session of “pan.” The beginners in the game were rapidly picking up some of the finer points of this treacherous eight-deck game; the veteran instructor, Sanford Goldman, masterfully outlined some of the nebulous and marginal aspects –“don’t get caught with more than ten cards” –“pay only what they ask” – etc. Shortly afterwards, Sanford crimsoned as his daughter, Dolly, indicated that he had gone out with a “commoke hand.”
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Highlights of the October 6th meeting: one of the finest turnouts in many years to bid adieu to the outgoing officers and to welcome the new – in addition to the regular faithful, there was a galaxy of guests including Lou Mogi (sic, Mogy), Max Zemen, Bob Sharon, Louie Addleson, Rabbi Levens, Rabbi Cohn, Lou Bickman, Abe Nasatir and Harry Townes. Present also were Guardians who were long overdue for an attendance—the entire Kahn clan—Abe, Irv, Yale and Julius—Sam Fisher, Sol Price, Eli Levenson, Leo Greenbaum and Max Israel – Lt. Harvey Ferer resplendent in his officer’s uniform—the giving away of Allie Ferer’s gavel (personal property) by Lou Mogi to Sammy Addleson—plaudits and tributes flowed with oratorical ease – the assembly line installations by Rabbi Levens – the genuince sincerity of Allie Ferer’s farewell speech – congratulatory telegrams – all in all – a big night.
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The envy of all his classmates in business law – this was the situation in which one of our young State College students recently found himself – for wasn’t his dad one of San Diego’s better attorneys – and wouldn’t his dad help him with the problem – just a simple problem on Contracts – our young collegian and his illustrious dad discussed the hypothetical case thoroughly at the dinner table – the answer was evolved simply. Now in this household, in which love and understanding have always been dominant, has arisen a frightening friction – for the sun flunked the problem only because of his dad’s assistance… and the dad—still our community’s authority on Contract Law!
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The tremendous impact of corporations in our daily economy has undeniably affect our every day existence. Take for example, a gin game between two players at the last meeting… one of the layers at the outset decided that the stakes involved exceed by far his normal interest. A corporation was immediately organized and several non-participating stockholders each took a proportionate share. There is no question that this makes for a stimulating contest – for while one player is seated, the entire corporation stands in back, and moves in unison with each draw and discard.
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As the Psychologist Sees You
Southwestern Jewish Press, October 14, 1955, Page 5
By Irving R. Stone, Psychological Consultant
Emotion or Emotions – The sight and sound of a baby crying are familiar to all parents but the reason underlying the weeping and wailing is often unknown. Some parents may think the child is hungry, others that his diaper is wet, and still others that a pin is sticking him. They are uniformly convinced of one thing, though, that the child is showing some emotion.
Whether we have an “Emotion or Emotions” is frequently discussed in psychological circles with the majority favoring the concept that we have a number of emotions but that emotion is somewhat generalized at birth and becomes more specific as we get older. Thus, from general emotion we see the development of specific reactions, which we call anger, love, hate, fear and many others.
Even though we give specific names to each of these emotional manifestations, the physiological aspect of emotions do not differ one from another. We get butterflies in the stomach, a fast beating heart, difficult in breathing, the outpouring of perspiration, and difficulty in eating with most emotional disturbances.
Frequently there is a combination of emotions all experienced at the same time. For example, my wife and I recently were driving on the highway and our car was hit by a careless speeder who was somewhat affected by a fluid far stronger than water. At first, we were relieved that we were still alive and uninjured. We looked at the damage to our car and felt despair over the havoc, at the same time feeling anger that a person as careless as the other driver should be allowed to use our highways. Still, at the same time, we felt happy that we were spared and that our children would not be left orphans, especially when we realized that our lives were saved by a difference of about five seconds between being hit from the rear and what might have been, from the side.
Each person differs in the way he reacts to emotion provoking situations, depending on the emotional meaning which that situation has for him. In the same way, the intensity of the reaction is not always in direct ratio to the emotional situation. This is based upon one’s past experiences and the pattern he has developed in reacting to these situations.
Often emotion can increase the capacity of a person to exert far more strength and speed than he normally possesses; at other times it can be paralyzing and cause unusual weakness. It makes a person less sensitive to pain and it can be persistent and recurring, even after the emotion provoking situation has passed.
This, then, is emotion. Whether it is one emotion or many emotions is less important than the effect which it has upon us. It may be beneficial or devastating, but it certainly can be powerful and upsetting of routines and plans.
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Council Goes French To Raise Funds Oct. 23rd
Southwestern Jewish Press, October 14, 1955, Page 6
A beautiful and original floor show put on by Council members who serve on the Hospital project will highlight the Second Annual Dinner Dance of the National Council of Jewish Women on Sunday, October 23, at the Mission Valley Country Club.
Since proceeds of the affair, “Gaite Parisienne,” will be devoted to the Hospital project, only members who have served on this committee will participate in the original song and dance members, composed by Mrs. Harvey Furgatch and Mrs. Edward Merkin, to carry out the French theme of the dinner-dance. Mrs. Jack Stern, President, and Mrs. Marvin Jacobs, Dance Chairman, will receive guests. Cocktails will be served from 7 to 8 followed by a sit down dinner at 8 with dancing by Don Gilbert’s Orchestra.
Mrs. Sheldon Sackheim and a large committee have been working on decorations to carry out the Parisian motif and Mrs. Richard Disraeli, in charge of Hospitality and Mrs. Morton Kantor, in charge of Special Arrangements, are also carrying out the motif in their departments.
Mrs. Paul Moss and Mrs. Morris Pomerantz are in charge of reservations.
Mrs. Martin Ernest is chairman of the Hospital Project which services the Pediatrics Ward at County Hospital with toys, entertainment, parties and visiting of the membership on an all year round basis.
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Labor Zionist Leaders Attend Conference
Southwestern Jewish Press, October 14, 1955, Page 6
The Labor Zionist Organization of America – Poale Zion will hold its Western Region Conference October 15th and 16th, in Los Angeles, according to a statement made by I. Margolin, Chairman of the Western Region Council.
A public session will be held Saturday night, October 15th, 8:30 p.m., at the Musicians Hall, 817 North Vine Street. Main speakers for the occasion will be C. Bezalel Sherman, noted author, sociologist and lecturer and national cultural director of the LZOA, and Moshe Bartal, Israel Histadrut representative to the United States and member of the General Council of Mapai.
Among the delegates planning to attend from the Chaim Weizmann and Ben Zvi branches of San Diego are Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Olsher, Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Richlin, Mr. and Mrs. B. Veitzer, Dena Weissman, and Victor Weissman.
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(Lipstick)
Southwestern Jewish Press, October 14, 1955, Page 6
Probably nothing hurts a woman’s vanity more than having to put on her glasses to apply her lipstick.
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Community Center News
Southwestern Jewish Press, October 14, 1955, Page 6
Golden Age – A list of names and addresses of senior citizens is now being compiled at the Center for a Golden Age programs, which is projected in the near future. By calling the Center, your name can be added to this list.
Young Adult – The Young Adult group will hold a Halloween Costume Party at the Center on Tuesday evening, October 25th at 8 p.m. Max Gendelman and Marline Breitbard are co-chairmen for the party.
Classes – An adult program which will include bridge classes, ceramics, film series, forum and discussion groups, Hebrew language, lecture and concert series, choir, carts and crafts, painting (oil and water), public speaking, social dance classes, square dance, women’s league, and a young married couples club is now getting underway. Adults interested in any of the above activities are urged to phone or visit the center to discuss their particular interest.
Teen-Age—Thursday nights are set aside for teen age high school boys and girls. Activities include dancing, game room and lounge. The program starts at 7:00 p.m.
Tween-Age—The Junior High “Tween Age” groups meet from 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Wednesday evenings. Parties, sports and games and holiday celebrations are featured in the Tween program.
Tots – Variety is the spice of the children’s program, offered by the Center every afternoon after school until 5:00 p.m. Children 5 to 12 years of age may join. Creative dance and ballet, and arts and crafts will be held on Wednesdays at 3:00 p.m. Dramatics, photography, sports and other special groups will be organized as soon as enough children register for them.
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Halloween Dance on Democratic Agenda
Southwestern Jewish Press, October 14, 1955, Page 6
A “Halloween Masque Ball” will be held in Mission Valley Country Club, on Halloween Night, Sunday, October 30th from 8 p.m.—sponsored by the Democratic Council of San Diego County. One dollar contribution toward the Council’s “Victory for ’56 Billboard Fund” will provide admission to the affair. Prizes will be awarded for the “best looking” and the “funniest” costumes. Costumes are optional.
Tickets may be obtained by contacting chairman Sylvia Haffner or any area Demo Club.
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Now Hear This
Southwestern Jewish Press, October 14, 1955, Page 6
By Nadene Feiler
This Sunday marks a new application of the Hawaiian term “luau” and leave it to USO-JWB to go it one better. With all the new pizza joints opening in town, renewed interest in Italian food is going hog (you should excuse the indelicacy) wild. What’s the connection?
Again I must start with this Sunday: date, October 16; time 2 p.m.; place, home of Mr. and Mrs. David Ferer, 1130 Flora St., Coronado. Program: Patio Party and – I don’t believe it yet till I see it – an “Italian Luau??” This is another of those Sunday afternoon parties sponsored by USO-0JWB by the San Diego Chapter, National Council of Jewish Women, with Mrs. Sidney (Maggie) Silverman pushing the buttons. Extra added attraction: Don Benjamin, Latin-American dance professional, will help us to brush up on our rhumba, samba, mambo et al.
We meet as usual at Temple Center at 1 p.m. for transportatijon. We should be through there at about 5, whereupon we’ll all head for Tifereth Israel Center to wind up a very perfect day. “Italian Luau”? Terrific!
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Birdie Stodel Is Flying High
Southwestern Jewish Press, October 14, 1955, Page 6
The annual Donor Luncheon of Birdie Stodel B’nai B’rith Women will be held on November 7th at the Mission Valley Country Club. This year’s prize—a round trip flight for two to New York via Transcontinental Airlines.
If transportation to the Luncheon is your problem, call the car pool chairman, Mitzie Ornstein, at JU-2-1274.
Donor Chairmen, Mrs. L. Lassman and Mrs. H. Lasher, urge that as many books as possible be sold before they must be turned in at the Aid to Israel night, Wednesday, October 26th at 8 p.m. in the Beth Jacob Center.
Aid to Israel co-chairmen, Mrs. Goldie Schusterman, Mrs. Martin Winicki, Mrs. Elva Breitbard, Mrs. Jennie Penn cordially invite you to a pleasant evening of cards and refreshments with friends.
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“A Night At A Night Club”
Southwestern Jewish Press, October 14, 1955, Page 6
The Men’s Group of the City of Hope Auxiliary, under the chairmanship of Elias Berwin, is presenting a gigantic stage revue with topnotch talent and a dance at the Beth Jacob Center on Saturday night (tomorrow), October 15th.
All proceeds of this affair go to the City of Hope Research and Medical Center at Duarte, California. Bob Shumake, who was Master of Ceremonies with Eddie Fiosher’s troupe on his European tour, will be M.C. and Vic Distad’s Orchestra will play for dancing. Part of the large committee working for this fundraising event are: Jerry Aronoff, Food; Harold Aved, Jack Myers; Hank Gardner, Wilfred Hedge, Max Kaufman, Danny Schwartz and David Schwartz. Helen Sparber is Hotess Chairman. Miriam Chadwick is in charge of decorations.
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Nursery School Has Outstanding Speaker
Southwestern Jewish Press, October 15, 1955, Page 6
A very important and interesting educational meeting of the Cooperative Nursery School of the Jewish Community Center will be held on Thursday, October 27 at 8:00 p.m. at the home of Bernard Arenson, 5068 Rockford Dr. Dr. Francis A. Ballantine, Associate Professor of Education, at San Diego State College will be the speaker, His topic will be on the “Exceptional Child” at the pre-school age level and how to determine if a child is exceptional and what can be done to help the child. All this should be unusual meeting guests are invited to attend.
Mrs. Lee Phillips, President of the Nursery School, will be chairman of the meeting. Refreshments will be served.
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